What a steaming pile of BS! I love your books, and there is a lot of sexy in them, but the later is not the cause of the former. You write awesome characters and plots. Even if you "faded to black" every time, they would still be fantastic reads. My other favourite fantasy authors are J.K. Rowling and Tamora Pierce, neither of whom, so far as I am aware, are known for graphic sex (outside of fanfic, that is!). What a weird assertion to make.