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Sibel Speaks Out

I've blogged here a couple of times about my friend Sibel Kekilli, who played Shae on GAME OF THRONES. Sibel is bright and beautiful, a joy to work with, and she made a great Shae. I've said more than once that it was probably a good thing the character was already dead before I met Sibel, or I might never have had the heart to kill her. ((Show Shae, thanks to David and Dan and Sibel, was actually a much different and more interesting character than Book Shae, I blush to admit))



Last winter, Sibel visited Santa Fe and I showed her the town, and a television crew from the German travel show AFTER DARK filmed our adventures. More recently, I visited Hamburg, Sibel's home town, and she returned the favor (without the TV crew). I blogged about that below.

There's a lot more to Sibel Kekilli than just Shae, though. She has twice won the Lola for Best Actress, the German Oscar, for roles in feature films, she is presently one of the stars of the long-running German police procedural TATORT... and she has long been politically active, speaking out on controversial subjects, most notably the treatment of women in traditional Islamic culture.

Recently she was invited to the German "White House," where she addressed that subject once again in a speech before Joachim Gauck, the president of Germany.

You can read an English translation of her remarks here:

http://sibelkekilli.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/faz_932015_EN.pdf

Sibel was speaking as an ambassador for Terre Des Femmes, a Hamburg-based non-profit organization dedicated to fighting violence against women, forced marriage, female genital mutilation, trafficking, forced prostitution, and "honor" killings. If any of you would like to supprt Terre Des Femmes in their work, you can make contributions via their website at: https://www.frauenrechte.de/online/index.php/home-engl

Some of the things that Sibel and Terre Des Femmes fight against are dramatized in A SONG OF ICE AND FIRE... but, sadly, they are not just fantasy, but real problems in the "enlightened" modern world we live in. I applaud Sibel for her courage in speaking out against them... her words have come at great personal cost, I know, and made her a lot of enemies... but as someone wiser than me once said, all that in necessary for evil to triumph in this world is for good men (and women) to say nothing.

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dyrecorn
Jul. 15th, 2015 01:03 pm (UTC)
Signal Boosting!
Shared this to Facebook. Thanks again for using your voice (which is magnified by your audience) to get the word out on causes like this.

I have a lot of admiration for people who are not themselves required to take a stand on issues but do nonetheless.

One of the things that makes me proud to be in the fandom is the push for positive change I see from some of our more prominent authors.
ADragonDemands
Jul. 15th, 2015 03:03 pm (UTC)
Sibel on Game of Thrones Wiki
I've updated Sibel's page on Game of Thrones Wiki with a link to this post and transcript.

http://gameofthrones.wikia.com/wiki/Sibel_Kekilli

A *major* problem on GoTWiki for years has been that random anonymous people, who never visited the site before or edited anything, would repeatedly pop up making their first and only post on Sibel's article....asking if we had any links to clips from pornographic movies she appeared in years ago under a stage name.

I banned them out of hand for such questions but more come. Eventually I just locked her page to protect it and removed specific references, specifically because she said how upset she was when tabloids revealed her past.
mlsand
Jul. 15th, 2015 03:55 pm (UTC)
I grew up in Turkey, and I love Ms. Kekilli. She was a damned good Shae, and her words are wise. If you break from family, expect to pay for it. This is true in my family, which is well-to-do, educated. There, it's less sexist than it is a Stark wolf pack. Everyone, male or female, must act as a pack and obey the dictates of the leaders who, in our case, are women. If you want to be out on your own, you pay for it, as they will shun you. It won't be official shunning or "honor" killings, but it will happen, through inheritance being directed away from you, gossip being directed at you, reduced marriage opportunities for both men and women, etc.

The not-so-bright side of "enlightening" Turkish women is the state of work in Turkey, as such moves almost always involve encouraging women to work outside the home. Unions are rare. Most men work in less than ideal conditions, with little protective gear, even in mines and factories. Hours are long, and wages are low. Something needs to be done, for the men as well as the women who might find themselves working in such places. Most women will not be doctors and professors. Middle class is small, the lower class legion, which is where I fear we are headed in the US, but that's another story.
sevenstorms
Jul. 15th, 2015 05:23 pm (UTC)
Thank you Sibel and GRRM.
Domestic violence and VAW is a huge problem and it affects many. Survivors need support and the general public needs awareness and education. Thank you Sibel!
shawnbrock
Jul. 16th, 2015 02:45 am (UTC)
Glad to see the tide turning on this
It seems there is so much hate directed at Christianity, we have romanticized the Islam religion. The bigger message is that when we let fanatics (of any religion) dictate morality based on their interpretation of ancient texts, we're in big trouble.

If a Christian blows up an abortion clinic, we need to call it what it is.

If a bunch of Muslims throw acid in a girl's face, we need to call it what it is.

Even Bill Maher is starting to come around on the subject, so that's saying something!!

E.j. Boulton
Jul. 16th, 2015 05:27 am (UTC)
Concerned
Speaking out against how women are treated in 'traditional Islamic culture' is all well and good, but in the modern European political context it seems to be used quite cynically by all kinds of noxious anti-immigrant reactionaries (Geert Wilders is a prominent example), without much actual concern for making things better for Muslim women. In fact, it often makes their situation worse, since increased societal Islamophobia goes hand-in-hand with hijabis/niqabis being harassed on the street.

I've seen a lot of earnest feminist activists from Europe getting caught up in these schemes, and its very disheartening to see, because its a very important issue that doesn't deserve to be used to justify anti-Muslim hysteria.

I'm not from Germany so I don't know much about the specific organisation Sibel is representing, but I hope they have put a lot of thought into how to responsibly convey their message and achieve their goals.
pm_glasgow
Jul. 16th, 2015 11:43 am (UTC)
German Sausages
George did you try a Bratwurst Sausage whilst in hamburg? They're delicious!
mjlocke
Jul. 16th, 2015 02:41 pm (UTC)
Sibel Kikelli shows true heroism
George, thanks for highlighting Ms. Kikelli's advocacy on behalf of women. It's important work, and she has paid a heavy price for it.
storm59
Jul. 16th, 2015 03:57 pm (UTC)
I really enjoyed Shae; Sibel Kekilli's acting brought depth and complexity to the character.

It is nice to see someone who has the visibility being able (and willing) to stand up and be heard. Hurrah for people of conscience and courage, who seek beyond the narrow bounds of their own existence, to meet the needs of their fellowmen.

Edited at 2015-07-16 03:58 pm (UTC)
JWKGRR
Jul. 16th, 2015 06:20 pm (UTC)
Great actress.
Her performance in "Head-On" blew my away. The movie focuses deeply on the struggle of second generation Turkish-germans to balance a traditional heritage with the liberal values of central Europe. It's warming to see that performance came from an intimate place and that she has kept contributing to a solution even when many would rather swipe those problems under a finely woven kilim.
ssalem3
Jul. 16th, 2015 07:08 pm (UTC)
What a brave women
As a middle-easterner, I appreciate the bravery of Miss Sibel. Taking a stand against Islam can result in a backlash from not only the muslim world, but the PC Western intelligentsia as well.
grrm
Jul. 16th, 2015 08:32 pm (UTC)
Re: What a brave women
I don't think Sibel's comments can be characterized as "taking a stand against Islam." She is talking about the treatment of women, and says several times how much she loves her culture. Read her words.
ssalem3
Jul. 16th, 2015 09:24 pm (UTC)
Re: What a brave women
Perhaps "stand against Islam" was a poor choice of words. However, it is no coincidence that she addresses the men in her society and calls Islam "merciless" for things like honor killings. These ideas don't appear spontaneously in a vacuum. From where else do these "traditions" come from if not religion? The men who are threatening her life are doing so out of a warped sense of morality.
Also, I don't think one can equate Islam and culture in all (or any) middle-eastern countries. I like Sibel George, but I am a little tired of Westerners (or individuals who move from the middle-east to the West) conflating love of one's culture with love of Islam. There is much more to Turkish culture than simple extensions of Islam. There are many non-muslims living in the middle east, and they are just as Iranian, Turkish, Iraqi, etc as their muslim compatriots. Can't Americans criticize southern baptists and still be patriots? I can't tell you how many discussion I've had with family members (who have never read a page of the Koran in their life) criticizing the Iranian regime that start with, "I'm a believing Muslim but..." It's a very problematic attitude, in my opinion. Excuse my English, it is a second language for me and my fluency starts to fall apart in long discussions.

Edited at 2015-07-16 09:35 pm (UTC)
deichrodler
Jul. 17th, 2015 06:23 pm (UTC)
Someone I quite like, too. Not only because she's a star of my home town Tatort (well, I guess we can ignore Milberg on here). ^_^

She seems to understand many things and also care for these things and actually act upon them instead of simply focussing on career or work. That's a thing to admire. It's also admirable that she seems to enjoy life and humour quite a bit, though!
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